What! You Don’t Want This Cookie!
Posted in Uncategorized on July 10th, 2009 by Administrator – Be the first to commentHave you ever politely denied a cookie or cake by someone and they took offense? Have they ever said something like “what are you on a diet or something? Have you ever come back with something like “no, but you should be on a diet.” I have and it’s not a pretty sight. The real problem here is the guilt of people who offer this stuff. It eats people up inside. Some obese people externalize it through ridicule and scorn. Others internalize it and just live with it. The fact is that it sucks. This however must be worked through and I believe forgiveness of oneself is extremely valuable. Talking about it can also be extremely valuable as a way to let go of this shame. The next time you work with a fitness professional, don’t feel bad if you have these problems to talk it out. That’s what we’re here for.